When receiving the wedding invitation and the follow-up text clarifying that you are only invited to the reception, here's what you should do:
Acknowledge the invitation: Thank your friend for the wedding invitation and express your gratitude for being included in the reception celebration.
Respond politely: Politely acknowledge the clarification about being invited to the reception only.
Confirm your attendance: Respond to the RSVP request promptly. Let your friend know whether you will be attending the reception or not. If you're planning to attend, mention the number of guests who will be accompanying you if applicable.
Be understanding: Understand that wedding guest lists can be tricky, and there might be various reasons why you were invited to the reception but not the wedding ceremony. Try not to take it personally and focus on enjoying the celebration you were invited to attend.
Respond within the RSVP deadline: If there's a specified deadline for the RSVP, make sure to respond before that date. This helps the couple with their wedding planning, especially when it comes to finalizing guest counts for catering and seating arrangements.
Sample Response:
"Hi [Friend's Name],
Thank you so much for inviting me to the wedding reception! I really appreciate being included in such a special occasion.
I completely understand and respect the arrangement for the reception-only invitation. Count me in! I'll be attending the reception and am looking forward to celebrating with you and [Her Daughter's Name].
Looking forward to sharing this joyous day with you all!
Warm regards, [Your Name]"
Remember, responding to an RSVP is not only courteous but also helps the couple make important arrangements for their big day.